Theirs, Mine, and Ours: On Being a Doctoral Student and a Mother

This is a perfect moment to reflect on my life as a doctoral student and a mother, for never have these two roles dominated the many others I assume as they do now. In the two weeks since I was approached about writing on my experience as a parent and student, I have accomplished many tasks, for lac...

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Main Author: Catherine DiFelice Box
Format: Article
Language:English
Published: Columbia University Libraries 2015-06-01
Series:Working Papers in Applied Linguistics and TESOL
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Online Access:https://academiccommons.columbia.edu/doi/10.7916/d8-qs0a-a407/download
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description This is a perfect moment to reflect on my life as a doctoral student and a mother, for never have these two roles dominated the many others I assume as they do now. In the two weeks since I was approached about writing on my experience as a parent and student, I have accomplished many tasks, for lack of a better term: laid out my plan for future doctoral classes and research, finished a book review, began the daunting search for kindergarten programs for my 4-year-old daughter, Océane, and gave birth to my second child, Samuel.At first glance, it seems that one could demarcate my professional work from my personal life— doctoral coursework, professors, research papers, and exams on one side, husband, children and preschool conferences on the other. If that were true, it would have been impossible for me to have survived the past two weeks. Instead, my doctoral work and my personal life intertwine so closely that one informs the other; indeed, one inspires the other. Balancing the two roles, in fact, makes me a better student and mother.
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Theirs, Mine, and Ours: On Being a Doctoral Student and a Mother
Working Papers in Applied Linguistics and TESOL
Applied linguistics
Motherhood
Academic degrees
Graduate work
Doctorate
Doctoral student
title Theirs, Mine, and Ours: On Being a Doctoral Student and a Mother
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title_fullStr Theirs, Mine, and Ours: On Being a Doctoral Student and a Mother
title_full_unstemmed Theirs, Mine, and Ours: On Being a Doctoral Student and a Mother
title_short Theirs, Mine, and Ours: On Being a Doctoral Student and a Mother
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Motherhood
Academic degrees
Graduate work
Doctorate
Doctoral student
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