Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young Adults

Research has established that sexual minority young adults generally report fewer desires and fewer expectations for parenthood than do their heterosexual peers. Little is known, however, about other desires and expectations. Is parenthood the only domain in which lesbian and gay individuals report...

Full description

Bibliographic Details
Main Authors: Doyle P. Tate, Charlotte J. Patterson
Format: Article
Language:English
Published: Frontiers Media S.A. 2019-11-01
Series:Frontiers in Psychology
Subjects:
Online Access:https://www.frontiersin.org/article/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.02679/full
_version_ 1811213394183716864
author Doyle P. Tate
Charlotte J. Patterson
author_facet Doyle P. Tate
Charlotte J. Patterson
author_sort Doyle P. Tate
collection DOAJ
description Research has established that sexual minority young adults generally report fewer desires and fewer expectations for parenthood than do their heterosexual peers. Little is known, however, about other desires and expectations. Is parenthood the only domain in which lesbian and gay individuals report fewer desires and expectations than their heterosexual peers? Or do lower aspirations among lesbian and gay adults about parenthood also occur in other domains, such as marriage and work? In this study, we explored a variety of desires and expectations for the future among lesbian, gay, and heterosexual young adults. Participants for this internet survey were recruited via social media, and included 368 childless cisgender young adults (211 lesbian or gay and 157 heterosexual) living in the United States. There were three main findings. First, while lesbian/gay individuals were less likely than heterosexual participants to express desire for parenthood, desires in the other future domains did not vary across sexual orientation. Lesbian/gay participants were as likely as heterosexual individuals to desire marriage, friendships, and community connections, as well as career and economic success. Results for expectations were, however, very different. Lesbian/gay participants were less likely than heterosexual individuals to expect that they would marry, become parents, feel connected to a community, achieve meaningful careers, live in their ideal housing, or that they would attain financial stability. Thus, although desires were largely unrelated to sexual orientation, many expectations were strongly linked to it. Lesbian and gay individuals were also far more likely than their heterosexual peers to desire future goals that they did not expect to achieve. Overall, for lesbian/gay young adults, low parenthood aspirations were part of a general pattern of low expectations (though not reduced desires) across a number of life domains.
first_indexed 2024-04-12T05:45:59Z
format Article
id doaj.art-1b4826db0d2d491baccf40c7139a3b4c
institution Directory Open Access Journal
issn 1664-1078
language English
last_indexed 2024-04-12T05:45:59Z
publishDate 2019-11-01
publisher Frontiers Media S.A.
record_format Article
series Frontiers in Psychology
spelling doaj.art-1b4826db0d2d491baccf40c7139a3b4c2022-12-22T03:45:27ZengFrontiers Media S.A.Frontiers in Psychology1664-10782019-11-011010.3389/fpsyg.2019.02679502643Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young AdultsDoyle P. TateCharlotte J. PattersonResearch has established that sexual minority young adults generally report fewer desires and fewer expectations for parenthood than do their heterosexual peers. Little is known, however, about other desires and expectations. Is parenthood the only domain in which lesbian and gay individuals report fewer desires and expectations than their heterosexual peers? Or do lower aspirations among lesbian and gay adults about parenthood also occur in other domains, such as marriage and work? In this study, we explored a variety of desires and expectations for the future among lesbian, gay, and heterosexual young adults. Participants for this internet survey were recruited via social media, and included 368 childless cisgender young adults (211 lesbian or gay and 157 heterosexual) living in the United States. There were three main findings. First, while lesbian/gay individuals were less likely than heterosexual participants to express desire for parenthood, desires in the other future domains did not vary across sexual orientation. Lesbian/gay participants were as likely as heterosexual individuals to desire marriage, friendships, and community connections, as well as career and economic success. Results for expectations were, however, very different. Lesbian/gay participants were less likely than heterosexual individuals to expect that they would marry, become parents, feel connected to a community, achieve meaningful careers, live in their ideal housing, or that they would attain financial stability. Thus, although desires were largely unrelated to sexual orientation, many expectations were strongly linked to it. Lesbian and gay individuals were also far more likely than their heterosexual peers to desire future goals that they did not expect to achieve. Overall, for lesbian/gay young adults, low parenthood aspirations were part of a general pattern of low expectations (though not reduced desires) across a number of life domains.https://www.frontiersin.org/article/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.02679/fullsexual orientationparenthoodLGBTQparenting desires and intentionsaspirations (psychology)
spellingShingle Doyle P. Tate
Charlotte J. Patterson
Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young Adults
Frontiers in Psychology
sexual orientation
parenthood
LGBTQ
parenting desires and intentions
aspirations (psychology)
title Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young Adults
title_full Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young Adults
title_fullStr Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young Adults
title_full_unstemmed Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young Adults
title_short Desire for Parenthood in Context of Other Life Aspirations Among Lesbian, Gay, and Heterosexual Young Adults
title_sort desire for parenthood in context of other life aspirations among lesbian gay and heterosexual young adults
topic sexual orientation
parenthood
LGBTQ
parenting desires and intentions
aspirations (psychology)
url https://www.frontiersin.org/article/10.3389/fpsyg.2019.02679/full
work_keys_str_mv AT doyleptate desireforparenthoodincontextofotherlifeaspirationsamonglesbiangayandheterosexualyoungadults
AT charlottejpatterson desireforparenthoodincontextofotherlifeaspirationsamonglesbiangayandheterosexualyoungadults