Exploring challenges in later-life relationships: a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websites

IntroductionDivorce rates among individuals aged 50 and above are on the rise. Given the greater life expectancy compared to previous generations, this is an issue that is affecting an increasing number of people. Therefore, it warrants an inquiry into the challenges these individuals encounter in t...

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Main Authors: Stanislav Svačinka, Anna Ševčíková, Jaroslav Gottfried
Format: Article
Language:English
Published: Frontiers Media S.A. 2023-10-01
Series:Frontiers in Psychology
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Online Access:https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1245736/full
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Jaroslav Gottfried
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description IntroductionDivorce rates among individuals aged 50 and above are on the rise. Given the greater life expectancy compared to previous generations, this is an issue that is affecting an increasing number of people. Therefore, it warrants an inquiry into the challenges these individuals encounter in their intimate relationships.MethodsThis study analyzed 225 relationship-related queries posted on Czech counselling websites to identify the strains and stressor patterns that older adults face in their relationships. The queries were limited to those that concerned themes and problems related to partnerships, were posted by one of the partners aged 60 or over, and were analyzed using inductive thematic analysis.ResultsFour main relationship issues were identified: infidelity and jealousy; relationship estrangement and cooling; undesirable changes in personality; and illness and somatic issues. Additionally, three recurring themes were identified that made the problems more demanding and that were specific to older age: lack of norms for relationships in that age group, absence of resources to tackle the issues, and personal calculation for Time Spent and Time Remaining.DiscussionThe research found that the types of problems encountered by older adults were similar to those experienced by younger individuals. However, the way these problems were perceived and processed was influenced by specific aspects of aging, such as societal expectations, available coping resources, and the perception of time. The findings also highlighted the challenges faced by older adults in terms of relationship norms, sexual functioning, and personality changes.
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spelling doaj.art-4e40efd486bb4211a09330e959a0b6ff2023-10-31T10:17:36ZengFrontiers Media S.A.Frontiers in Psychology1664-10782023-10-011410.3389/fpsyg.2023.12457361245736Exploring challenges in later-life relationships: a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websitesStanislav Svačinka0Anna Ševčíková1Jaroslav Gottfried2Psychology Research Institute, Faculty of Social Studies, Masaryk University, Brno, CzechiaPsychology Research Institute, Faculty of Social Studies, Masaryk University, Brno, CzechiaDepartment of Psychology, Faculty of Education, University of South Bohemia in České Budějovice, České Budějovice, South Bohemia, CzechiaIntroductionDivorce rates among individuals aged 50 and above are on the rise. Given the greater life expectancy compared to previous generations, this is an issue that is affecting an increasing number of people. Therefore, it warrants an inquiry into the challenges these individuals encounter in their intimate relationships.MethodsThis study analyzed 225 relationship-related queries posted on Czech counselling websites to identify the strains and stressor patterns that older adults face in their relationships. The queries were limited to those that concerned themes and problems related to partnerships, were posted by one of the partners aged 60 or over, and were analyzed using inductive thematic analysis.ResultsFour main relationship issues were identified: infidelity and jealousy; relationship estrangement and cooling; undesirable changes in personality; and illness and somatic issues. Additionally, three recurring themes were identified that made the problems more demanding and that were specific to older age: lack of norms for relationships in that age group, absence of resources to tackle the issues, and personal calculation for Time Spent and Time Remaining.DiscussionThe research found that the types of problems encountered by older adults were similar to those experienced by younger individuals. However, the way these problems were perceived and processed was influenced by specific aspects of aging, such as societal expectations, available coping resources, and the perception of time. The findings also highlighted the challenges faced by older adults in terms of relationship norms, sexual functioning, and personality changes.https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1245736/fulllater-life relationshipsonline counsellingpartnership problemsageingqualitative study
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online counselling
partnership problems
ageing
qualitative study
title Exploring challenges in later-life relationships: a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websites
title_full Exploring challenges in later-life relationships: a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websites
title_fullStr Exploring challenges in later-life relationships: a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websites
title_full_unstemmed Exploring challenges in later-life relationships: a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websites
title_short Exploring challenges in later-life relationships: a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websites
title_sort exploring challenges in later life relationships a qualitative study of the queries posted on counselling websites
topic later-life relationships
online counselling
partnership problems
ageing
qualitative study
url https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2023.1245736/full
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