PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWA

Abstract It is uneasy for Javanese women to make a decision to marry a non-Javanese man. Previous experiences with inter-ethnicities socialization play important roles to influence one’s decision to undergo an inter-ethnicities marriage. Decision-making process is defined as a selection process...

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Main Authors: Yolanda Imelda Fransisca Tuapattinaya, Sri Hartati
Format: Article
Language:Indonesian
Published: Universitas Diponegoro 2014-04-01
Series:Jurnal Psikologi Undip
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Online Access:http://ejournal.undip.ac.id/index.php/psikologi/article/view/8064
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Sri Hartati
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description Abstract It is uneasy for Javanese women to make a decision to marry a non-Javanese man. Previous experiences with inter-ethnicities socialization play important roles to influence one’s decision to undergo an inter-ethnicities marriage. Decision-making process is defined as a selection process of many available alternatives, including cognitive, motive, and attitude aspects. This study aims to describe the decision making process of the Javanese women t o ma r r y  n o n -Javanese men. Three adult women (within age range 20-40 years old), who were Javanese, and married with a non-Javanese man (Bataknese or Papuan) participated in this study. Observation and depth interview were used to collect qualitative data. The findings show that having similarities in age and religious beliefs (or religion) were the main consideration for these Javanese women to marry their non-Javanese husband. Two Javanese women encountered parents’ disagreement with their decisions to marry a non-Javanese man; parents encouraged them to marry a Javanese man. Another one woman could choose freely her non-Javanese man to marry with. The results also indicated that their decision making to marry followed these five steps: appraising the challenge, surveying alternatives, weighing of alternatives, deliberating about commitment, and surviving from negative feedback. Love and intimacy were two internal factors they considered before making decision to marry a non-Javanese man.
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spelling doaj.art-784010e2311b46749707a9ed873270fe2022-12-22T00:02:56ZindUniversitas DiponegoroJurnal Psikologi Undip1693-55862302-10982014-04-01131344110.14710/jpu.13.1.34-416918PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWAYolanda Imelda Fransisca Tuapattinaya0Sri Hartati1Fakultas Psikologi Universitas Diponegoro Jl. Prof. Soedarto, SH, Tembalang, SemarangFakultas Psikologi Universitas Diponegoro Jl. Prof. Soedarto, SH, Tembalang, SemarangAbstract It is uneasy for Javanese women to make a decision to marry a non-Javanese man. Previous experiences with inter-ethnicities socialization play important roles to influence one’s decision to undergo an inter-ethnicities marriage. Decision-making process is defined as a selection process of many available alternatives, including cognitive, motive, and attitude aspects. This study aims to describe the decision making process of the Javanese women t o ma r r y  n o n -Javanese men. Three adult women (within age range 20-40 years old), who were Javanese, and married with a non-Javanese man (Bataknese or Papuan) participated in this study. Observation and depth interview were used to collect qualitative data. The findings show that having similarities in age and religious beliefs (or religion) were the main consideration for these Javanese women to marry their non-Javanese husband. Two Javanese women encountered parents’ disagreement with their decisions to marry a non-Javanese man; parents encouraged them to marry a Javanese man. Another one woman could choose freely her non-Javanese man to marry with. The results also indicated that their decision making to marry followed these five steps: appraising the challenge, surveying alternatives, weighing of alternatives, deliberating about commitment, and surviving from negative feedback. Love and intimacy were two internal factors they considered before making decision to marry a non-Javanese man.http://ejournal.undip.ac.id/index.php/psikologi/article/view/8064inter-ethnicities marriagedecision makingJavanese women
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PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWA
Jurnal Psikologi Undip
inter-ethnicities marriage
decision making
Javanese women
title PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWA
title_full PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWA
title_fullStr PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWA
title_full_unstemmed PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWA
title_short PENGAMBILAN KEPUTUSAN UNTUK MENIKAH BEDA ETNIS: STUDI FENOMENOLOGIS PADA PEREMPUAN JAWA
title_sort pengambilan keputusan untuk menikah beda etnis studi fenomenologis pada perempuan jawa
topic inter-ethnicities marriage
decision making
Javanese women
url http://ejournal.undip.ac.id/index.php/psikologi/article/view/8064
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