Does Parenting Perfectionism Ironically Increase Violent Behaviors from Parent towards Children?

Background: Past research has shown that perfectionistic strivings (PS) and perfectionistic concerns (PC) in the parenting domain are associated with an increase in parental burnout (PB), and that PB causally increases violence towards one’s offspring. One may therefore wonder whether parenting perf...

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Main Authors: Alice Schittek, Isabelle Roskam, Moira Mikolajczak
Format: Article
Language:English
Published: MDPI AG 2023-10-01
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Online Access:https://www.mdpi.com/2227-9067/10/10/1704
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Moira Mikolajczak
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description Background: Past research has shown that perfectionistic strivings (PS) and perfectionistic concerns (PC) in the parenting domain are associated with an increase in parental burnout (PB), and that PB causally increases violence towards one’s offspring. One may therefore wonder whether parenting perfectionism may ironically increase violence towards one’s offspring. Objective: To the best of our knowledge, no study has ever investigated whether perfectionism (PS and PC) predicts violence towards one’s offspring, or whether PB could explain this link. In the current pre-registered cross-lagged study, we hypothesized that an increase in PS and PC would lead to an increase in violence via an increase in PB. Method: 228 participants responded to a longitudinal online survey, with three measurement occasions spaced 2 months apart. Results: Contrary to expectations, cross-lagged path models revealed that violence towards the offspring prospectively predicted an increase in PS and PC. Mediation models showed that PB was not a significant mediator. Results of all models did not change when controlling for social desirability. Conclusion: The present study shows that violence towards the offspring increases the risk of PS and PC in parents. Results are discussed in light of the feeling of guilt experienced by parents. Implications: Current worries that parenting perfectionism may paradoxically increase violence appear to be unwarranted at this stage. Moreover, correlation is not causation; thus, emphasizing caution before coming to clinically and societally relevant conclusions in cross-sectional studies. Thus, the PB and child maltreatment literature should slowly shift to using more longitudinal and causal designs.
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spelling doaj.art-9a07cf7a02624644a72e8f09e5579b332023-11-19T16:05:54ZengMDPI AGChildren2227-90672023-10-011010170410.3390/children10101704Does Parenting Perfectionism Ironically Increase Violent Behaviors from Parent towards Children?Alice Schittek0Isabelle Roskam1Moira Mikolajczak2Department of Psychology, UCLouvain, Place Cardinal Mercier 10, 1348 Louvain-la-Neuve, BelgiumDepartment of Psychology, UCLouvain, Place Cardinal Mercier 10, 1348 Louvain-la-Neuve, BelgiumDepartment of Psychology, UCLouvain, Place Cardinal Mercier 10, 1348 Louvain-la-Neuve, BelgiumBackground: Past research has shown that perfectionistic strivings (PS) and perfectionistic concerns (PC) in the parenting domain are associated with an increase in parental burnout (PB), and that PB causally increases violence towards one’s offspring. One may therefore wonder whether parenting perfectionism may ironically increase violence towards one’s offspring. Objective: To the best of our knowledge, no study has ever investigated whether perfectionism (PS and PC) predicts violence towards one’s offspring, or whether PB could explain this link. In the current pre-registered cross-lagged study, we hypothesized that an increase in PS and PC would lead to an increase in violence via an increase in PB. Method: 228 participants responded to a longitudinal online survey, with three measurement occasions spaced 2 months apart. Results: Contrary to expectations, cross-lagged path models revealed that violence towards the offspring prospectively predicted an increase in PS and PC. Mediation models showed that PB was not a significant mediator. Results of all models did not change when controlling for social desirability. Conclusion: The present study shows that violence towards the offspring increases the risk of PS and PC in parents. Results are discussed in light of the feeling of guilt experienced by parents. Implications: Current worries that parenting perfectionism may paradoxically increase violence appear to be unwarranted at this stage. Moreover, correlation is not causation; thus, emphasizing caution before coming to clinically and societally relevant conclusions in cross-sectional studies. Thus, the PB and child maltreatment literature should slowly shift to using more longitudinal and causal designs.https://www.mdpi.com/2227-9067/10/10/1704abuselongitudinalmaltreatmentparental burnoutperfectionistic strivingsperfectionistic concerns
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abuse
longitudinal
maltreatment
parental burnout
perfectionistic strivings
perfectionistic concerns
title Does Parenting Perfectionism Ironically Increase Violent Behaviors from Parent towards Children?
title_full Does Parenting Perfectionism Ironically Increase Violent Behaviors from Parent towards Children?
title_fullStr Does Parenting Perfectionism Ironically Increase Violent Behaviors from Parent towards Children?
title_full_unstemmed Does Parenting Perfectionism Ironically Increase Violent Behaviors from Parent towards Children?
title_short Does Parenting Perfectionism Ironically Increase Violent Behaviors from Parent towards Children?
title_sort does parenting perfectionism ironically increase violent behaviors from parent towards children
topic abuse
longitudinal
maltreatment
parental burnout
perfectionistic strivings
perfectionistic concerns
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