Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactions

The aim of the article is to present the results of qualitative research into the ways women and men show love in heterosexual relationships and to indicate gender similarities and differences in this area. The analysis is based on references to traditional and modern models of femininity and mascul...

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Egile nagusia: Julita Czernecka
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Argitaratua: Lodz University Press 2022-12-01
Saila:Acta Universitatis Lodziensis: Folia Sociologica
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Sarrera elektronikoa:https://czasopisma.uni.lodz.pl/sociologica/article/view/16039
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description The aim of the article is to present the results of qualitative research into the ways women and men show love in heterosexual relationships and to indicate gender similarities and differences in this area. The analysis is based on references to traditional and modern models of femininity and masculinity. The respondents’ opinions were divided into two main areas – widely defined communication (gestures of tenderness, emotional support, behavior during misunderstandings) and specific activities (helping perform household duties or other activities for the partner, buying gifts, organizing free time, initiating sex). The analysis of the empirical material showed the interpenetration of patriarchal and modern models of femininity and masculinity in how women and men behave lovingly towards their partners. Both men and women draw inspiration from the repertoire of behaviors, as well as from traditional masculinity and femininity, evolving towards a modern model of femininity and masculinity that becomes more androgynous. In this way, they definitely expand the ways they show love, combining the more emotional, feminine ways with the more active, more traditionally “masculine” ones.
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spelling doaj.art-a81b4281a95d4c2abf86b9adf6a4aa2d2023-01-24T12:42:31ZengLodz University PressActa Universitatis Lodziensis: Folia Sociologica0208-600X2353-48502022-12-0183759510.18778/0208-600X.83.0415797Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactionsJulita Czernecka0https://orcid.org/0000-0001-8592-8980Department of Sociology of Social Structures and Changes, Institute of Sociology, Faculty of Economics and Sociology, University of Lodz, ul. Rewolucji 1905 r. 41/43, 90-214 ŁódźThe aim of the article is to present the results of qualitative research into the ways women and men show love in heterosexual relationships and to indicate gender similarities and differences in this area. The analysis is based on references to traditional and modern models of femininity and masculinity. The respondents’ opinions were divided into two main areas – widely defined communication (gestures of tenderness, emotional support, behavior during misunderstandings) and specific activities (helping perform household duties or other activities for the partner, buying gifts, organizing free time, initiating sex). The analysis of the empirical material showed the interpenetration of patriarchal and modern models of femininity and masculinity in how women and men behave lovingly towards their partners. Both men and women draw inspiration from the repertoire of behaviors, as well as from traditional masculinity and femininity, evolving towards a modern model of femininity and masculinity that becomes more androgynous. In this way, they definitely expand the ways they show love, combining the more emotional, feminine ways with the more active, more traditionally “masculine” ones.https://czasopisma.uni.lodz.pl/sociologica/article/view/16039loveintimate relationshiperotic lovecoupleheterosexual relationshipomantic relationship
spellingShingle Julita Czernecka
Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactions
Acta Universitatis Lodziensis: Folia Sociologica
love
intimate relationship
erotic love
couple
heterosexual relationship
omantic relationship
title Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactions
title_full Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactions
title_fullStr Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactions
title_full_unstemmed Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactions
title_short Ways of “showing love” in an intimate relationship – similarities and differences between women’s and men’s interactions
title_sort ways of showing love in an intimate relationship similarities and differences between women s and men s interactions
topic love
intimate relationship
erotic love
couple
heterosexual relationship
omantic relationship
url https://czasopisma.uni.lodz.pl/sociologica/article/view/16039
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