Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring community

This is an educational-philosophical, more particularly, a societaltheoretical reflection on the “blame game” that is occasionally played between the parental home and the school with respect to the behaviour displayed by children in these societal relationships. After consulting the literature reg...

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Main Authors: Johannes L. Van der Walt, Nico A. Broer, Nicholus Mollo, Kgale Mampane, Charl C. Wolhuter
Format: Article
Language:English
Published: University of the Free State 2023-12-01
Series:Perspectives in Education
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Online Access:https://journals.ufs.ac.za/index.php/pie/article/view/7318
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author Johannes L. Van der Walt
Nico A. Broer
Nicholus Mollo
Kgale Mampane
Charl C. Wolhuter
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description This is an educational-philosophical, more particularly, a societaltheoretical reflection on the “blame game” that is occasionally played between the parental home and the school with respect to the behaviour displayed by children in these societal relationships. After consulting the literature regarding this issue, and the findings of recent empirical studies in South Africa for purposes of describing the “blame game”, the interpretivist-constructivist method was employed for exploring an alternative approach to the discipline problem in homes and schools, namely the creation of a social compact, and of a caring school community based thereon. The discipline practised in the parental home differs from that at school because home and school are essentially different societal relationships, each with unique foundation and destination functions; hence with respective sphere sovereignty. Their interests and activities are, at the same time, also interlaced in that they share the same child as a member. It is due to this interlacement (enkapsis) that unacceptable behaviour at home might impact detrimentally on discipline in the school, and vice versa. To counteract this reciprocal display of unruly behaviour, it is suggested that the parents and the school attended by their children could consider entering into a social compact or covenant so that they are as one in guiding the young people towards disciplined behaviour, that is, socially acceptable behaviour. The actions of such a new community should be guided by several moral codes, the most important of which are the ethic of community, and of loving, caring and compassion.
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spelling doaj.art-d4483d5af93d4dbb890bc891a2a8aaa32024-03-13T11:08:02ZengUniversity of the Free StatePerspectives in Education0258-22362519-593X2023-12-0141410.38140/pie.v41i4.7318Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring communityJohannes L. Van der Walt0Nico A. Broer1Nicholus Mollo2Kgale Mampane3Charl C. Wolhuter4North-West University, South AfricaNorth-West University, South AfricaNorth-West University, South AfricaNorth-West University, South AfricaNorth-West University, South Africa This is an educational-philosophical, more particularly, a societaltheoretical reflection on the “blame game” that is occasionally played between the parental home and the school with respect to the behaviour displayed by children in these societal relationships. After consulting the literature regarding this issue, and the findings of recent empirical studies in South Africa for purposes of describing the “blame game”, the interpretivist-constructivist method was employed for exploring an alternative approach to the discipline problem in homes and schools, namely the creation of a social compact, and of a caring school community based thereon. The discipline practised in the parental home differs from that at school because home and school are essentially different societal relationships, each with unique foundation and destination functions; hence with respective sphere sovereignty. Their interests and activities are, at the same time, also interlaced in that they share the same child as a member. It is due to this interlacement (enkapsis) that unacceptable behaviour at home might impact detrimentally on discipline in the school, and vice versa. To counteract this reciprocal display of unruly behaviour, it is suggested that the parents and the school attended by their children could consider entering into a social compact or covenant so that they are as one in guiding the young people towards disciplined behaviour, that is, socially acceptable behaviour. The actions of such a new community should be guided by several moral codes, the most important of which are the ethic of community, and of loving, caring and compassion. https://journals.ufs.ac.za/index.php/pie/article/view/7318disciplinary problemsparental homeschoolschool communitysocial contractunacceptable learner behaviour
spellingShingle Johannes L. Van der Walt
Nico A. Broer
Nicholus Mollo
Kgale Mampane
Charl C. Wolhuter
Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring community
Perspectives in Education
disciplinary problems
parental home
school
school community
social contract
unacceptable learner behaviour
title Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring community
title_full Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring community
title_fullStr Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring community
title_full_unstemmed Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring community
title_short Discipline in the parental home and at school: Instead of the “blame game”, a caring community
title_sort discipline in the parental home and at school instead of the blame game a caring community
topic disciplinary problems
parental home
school
school community
social contract
unacceptable learner behaviour
url https://journals.ufs.ac.za/index.php/pie/article/view/7318
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